“Sexy” is a word I do not like to use very often, especially when referring to strangers. I personally, wouldn’t like if someone random saw me on the street and shouted “Hey, sexy!” to my passing behind. I also have a negative reaction to this word because the first definition on Google shows this:
Sexy /sɛksi/ adj
sexually attractive or exciting.
syn sexually attractive, seductive, alluring, desirable, sensual…
Sexy can easily turn into trashy and the definition of sexy varies from person to person. I believe in embracing all body types, plus size and all but I do not believe that you have to let it all out to feel or look sexy. With the rise of Instagram modeling, there’s a subconscious feeling that if all your babies aren’t out, you aren’t there yet.
I’m here to redefine society’s “sexy” especially for our reserved plus size ladies out there. Confidence is being comfortable in any outfit. ANY outfit. I believe people should stay true to their morals and beliefs while making any trend work for them, whether completely covered up or not. Here are a few ways you can rock any modest outfit:
1 You can leave it all on the floor
2 Or let it swing
3 And It All Depends on you
4 Every day of the week
5 Let’s not forget our Hijabi slay (flips hijab)
6 And the slay squad
7 And on those lovely beach days
Remember ladies, confidence is key and how you carry yourself is what matters the most. Don’t let society trick you into their definition of clothing. Be you and stay you.
What do you do, that makes you feel sexy even when covered up? Tell me in the comments.